So all Israel was listed in the genealogical records in The Book of the Kings of Israel. The people of Judah were exiled to Babylon because they were unfaithful to the LORD. [1 Chronicles 9.1]
No matter how distracted we may get with the details of the Old Testament, we cannot underestimate the significance of what is said in 1 Chronicles 9.1. God wants a faithful people and, His people who were not faithful suffered over and again for their unfaithfulness.
The first three of the Ten Commandments reveal what faithfulness looks like. Faithfulness is strictly and unmistakably God-centric:
“I am the LORD your God, who rescued you from the land of Egypt, the place of your slavery. “You must not have any other god but me. “You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea. You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods. I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected—even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me. But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love me and obey my commands. “You must not misuse the name of the LORD your God. The LORD will not let you go unpunished if you misuse his name. [Exodus 20.2-7]
Unfaithfulness, on the other hand, is not strictly God-centric but is instead centered around any number of things starting with "self." The way of unfaithfulness is self-centric.
A God-centric life revolves around God and a self-centric life revolves around itself. While a self-centric life may indeed make allowance for God, in contrast, a God-centric life makes no allowance whatsoever for self.
As should be expected, Jesus told us and showed us what a God-centric life looks like:
If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me. [Matthew 16.24]
While we sincerely want to believe that "Jesus paid it all" by His being faithful on our behalf, we relieve ourselves of our responsibility to "give up our own way" in order to enjoy what He did for us. In assumed god-like authority, we selfishly defend our non-compliance declaring, "I still have to live" (as if we have higher priority than Jesus). Jesus however, was not vague about the requirement to give up your own way and refuted any notion of the statement, "I still have to live" with His demand (not suggestion) to take up your cross.
Like His Father God in the first three of the Ten Commandments, Jesus demands all-or-nothing faithfulness to Himself: you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me.
What's amazing is that in our "I still have to live" rebellion, we wonder why we experience all manner of curses for disobedience! All the while, the Bible repeats over and again that God's people suffered for their disobedience - specifically, their idolatry - their unfaithfulness to God and God ALONE. All the while, we maintain a firm grip on our man-made idols... because we "still have to live" ...and wonder why we still suffer.
Father, everything in my mind and intellect wants to find a work-around to Jesus' demand in Matthew 16.24. I know there are literally millions of books, doctrines, and theologies out there that allow a reasonable "work-around" excusing our "I still have to live" reasoning, but I don't find any of those work-around's firmly rooted in Your Word. Your Commandments and Jesus are both very clear about my undivided faithfulness to You. May I be found giving up my own way, taking up my cross, and following Jesus. So be it.