The Philistines set up their camp at Shunem, and Saul gathered all the army of Israel and camped at Gilboa. When Saul saw the vast Philistine army, he became frantic with fear. He asked the LORD what he should do, but the LORD refused to answer him, either by dreams or by sacred lots or by the prophets. Saul then said to his advisers, “Find a woman who is a medium, so I can go and ask her what to do.” His advisers replied, “There is a medium at Endor.” [1 Samuel 28.4-7]
Why did Saul ask for a woman who was a medium?
The short answer is this: because Saul rejected God (Who had rejected him) and turned headlong into idolatry.
Now, for the long answer based on some important "whole-Bible" associations...
Not only did Saul consult a woman who was a medium, but he ate with her. This is highly significant and further telling of idolatry.
Saul fell full length on the ground, paralyzed with fright because of Samuel’s words. He was also faint with hunger, for he had eaten nothing all day and all night. When the woman saw how distraught he was, she said, “Sir, I obeyed your command at the risk of my life. Now do what I say, and let me give you a little something to eat so you can regain your strength for the trip back.” But Saul refused to eat anything. Then his advisers joined the woman in urging him to eat, so he finally yielded and got up from the ground and sat on the couch. The woman had been fattening a calf, so she hurried out and killed it. She took some flour, kneaded it into dough and baked unleavened bread. She brought the meal to Saul and his advisers, and they ate it. Then they went out into the night. [1 Samuel 28.20-25]
There is another story in the Bible that sheds light on Saul's idolatry regarding the medium at Endor. That story is when the women of Moab seduced Israel's men into idolatry:
While the Israelites were camped at Acacia Grove, some of the men defiled themselves by having sexual relations with local Moabite women. These women invited them to attend sacrifices to their gods, so the Israelites feasted with them and worshiped the gods of Moab. In this way, Israel joined in the worship of Baal of Peor, causing the LORD’s anger to blaze against his people. [Numbers 25.1-3]
Notice that it was the women of Moab responsible for Israel's idolatry and food was involved.
Should this information come as a surprise to us? No, not at all because food was involved in the original sin, and, it was the woman who was first deceived and then who persuaded her husband to join in.
The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too. [Genesis 3.6]
Afterward, God warned of the dangerous control women could wield over men involving food:
Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.” And to the man he said, “Since you listened to your wife and ate from the tree whose fruit I commanded you not to eat, the ground is cursed because of you. All your life you will struggle to scratch a living from it. It will grow thorns and thistles for you, though you will eat of its grains. By the sweat of your brow will you have food to eat until you return to the ground from which you were made. For you were made from dust, and to dust you will return.” [Genesis 3.16-19]
It must be understood that God's curse upon mankind was not gender-specific, but binary. The woman alone did not carry the responsibility for the original sin (which was in fact idolatry - not trusting God alone), but shared it with her husband who willingly participated. They both had different roles, but the idolatry was the same. Both sexes failed regarding idolatry and now both sexes must remain mindful each other's potential respective roles in it!
Woman cannot point her finger at man any more than man can point his finger at woman regarding their mutual deception into idolatry (sin). The Bible however, generously provides all the information we need to know where to be on high alert for idolatry: it often involves a man and a woman and food.
We all know sex sells. Woman can use sex to control man. Man is precariously vulnerable to the allure of sex. Additionally, food is the fodder of relationship: the resulting relationship of eating together can be good or it can be evil, but sharing food together establishes emotional ties beyond casual acquaintance. It is not remarkable then that men find themselves in constant struggle with women and food. Nor is it remarkable that women find it easy to control men with their womanhood and food.
The seemingly outdated Bible practices of separation between men and women, present even in the New Testament, should now be seen in their relevance today. Women cannot help that their form and beauty attracts men and neither can men help that they are attracted to women. Both must be on high alert that their mutual attractions, even though they do not have to, can lead to idolatrous disaster. Women cannot help their nature to nurture with food any more than men can help their hunger. Both must remain mindful that food is an area of relationship that can lead to good or lead to evil outcomes.
So, for Saul to call for a woman medium is not remarkable. For Saul to eat with this woman medium is not remarkable. These two factors, although not exclusive to, are commonplace in idolatry and therefore provide ample reason to be aware of their influence and therefore the potential of idolatry. This is indeed the fallen nature of mankind - for men and women alike (this is a good place to note the importance of the marriage relationship and food (offered to idols?) as addressed by the Bible).
Saul, was not hearing from God, and so, in his impatient desperation, committed spiritual adultery (idolatry) in associating and eating with an idolatrous woman. Aaaaaand, it did not go so well... Saul would soon be dead.
As seen in Saul's idolatry, both he and the medium were operating outside of God's law. One cannot be blamed any more than the other - both were guilty - both were in complete disobedience to God.
While it is true that God placed certain restraints upon men and women respectively resultant to their failure in the Garden of Eden, there remains an order in gender that is not designed to punish one sex more than the other, but is designed to point mankind to Christ.
The way of woman is to control man instead of obeying God. The way of man is to be controlled by woman instead of obeying God. It is all about who is in control. Jesus said:
If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me. [Matthew 16.24 (also, Mark 8.34 & Luke 9.23)]
Imagine that.
Father, there are so many things that for so many years we have overlooked in the Bible. By "cherrypicking" certain passages and verses, we have missed the bigger picture of all the Bible and the undeniable references to idolatry throughout its pages. May we have eyes to see and ears to hear as we look to and follow only Jesus Who redeems us from the blindness and deafness of idolatry as we give up our own way, take up our cross, and follow Him. So be it.