The news soon reached Pharaoh’s palace: “Joseph’s brothers have arrived!” Pharaoh and his officials were all delighted to hear this. [Genesis 45.16]
Questions, questions, questions...
As it turns out, Pharoah finds out his slave, Joseph, now #2 man in all Egypt, has a family! As Pharoah would find out, they were a wealthy and significant family too.
From Pharoah's position, does it not beg to be asked how Joseph ended up a slave? And, whose character flaw caused Joseph to become a slave, his, or his brothers'? Would not Pharoah, at some point, ask himself these questions?
And then, Jacob is delighted to find that Joseph is alive! But wait, was he not "attacked by wild animals?" Why then was his coat covered in blood? How did he end up in Egypt?
As "real life" would play out for most of us, given we were in this same situation - whether from the perspective of Joseph, Pharoah, Jacob, or Joseph's brothers, it is certain these questions came up and were answered at some point or another.
This brings significance to what Joseph told his brothers when they left to go get Jacob and bring him to Egypt:
So Joseph sent his brothers off, and as they left, he called after them, “Don’t quarrel about all this along the way!” [Genesis 45.24]
Did the brothers ever "come clean" to Jacob about what happened? Even if Jacob did not question his sons when they returned to get him, it is highly likely he asked Joseph what happened once they were reunited.
The opinion of Jacob and Pharoah both could have changed greatly upon learning of Joseph's story... but the record we have simply does not address such a thing... We are left to understand that what Joseph told his brothers was what (and how) he explained it to both Jacob and Pharoah:
So it was God who sent me here, not you! And he is the one who made me an adviser to Pharaoh—the manager of his entire palace and the governor of all Egypt. [Genesis 45.8]
No doubt, had Joseph's attitude not been what Genesis 45.8 reveals, he could have made life very uncomfortable, if not intolerable, for his brothers. No doubt, Jacob and Pharoah both would have supported whatever punishment Joseph demanded. The likelihood that Joseph defused Jacob's and Pharoah's immediate response to hearing Joseph's story is high. Joseph was convinced, by his dreams, and God who gave them, that his life was chosen to preserve life, not to destroy it.
Once again, we are given Jesus-like actions in the Old Testament pointing us early-on to the coming Messiah and how He would forgive.
Now it came to pass, when the time had come for Him to be received up, that He steadfastly set His face to go to Jerusalem, and sent messengers before His face. And as they went, they entered a village of the Samaritans, to prepare for Him. But they did not receive Him, because His face was set for the journey to Jerusalem. And when His disciples James and John saw this, they said, “Lord, do You want us to command fire to come down from heaven and consume them, just as Elijah did?” But He turned and rebuked them, and said, “You do not know what manner of spirit you are of. For the Son of Man did not come to destroy men’s lives but to save them.” And they went to another village. [Luke 9.51-56 NKJV]
Jesus remained focused on His mission to save lives just as Joseph prophetically demonstrated many years before Jesus' Advent!
The lesson for us is simple: Forgive and stay focused on saving lives. Don't get entangled in the details of life's emotion and bitterness by rehearsing or repeating offenses. Constantly and decidedly look for and see God's hand in every circumstance. Any time you hear or think the words, "they treated you wrong," be sure to reject and rebuke those words because they are the dictation of Satan himself attempting to trip you up! Understand what Spirit you are of! You are sent by God's Holy Spirit on mission to bring the Good News to all (as did Jesus).
There is no time or place for resentment, bitterness and unforgiveness at any level.
Father, help me to remain mindful of the lesson to be learned from Joseph as he mirrored Jesus Christ well in advance of Jesus' Advent. May I be found forgiving as the segue to saving souls... So be it.