Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, “With the LORD’s help, I have produced a man!” Later she gave birth to his brother and named him Abel. When they grew up, Abel became a shepherd, while Cain cultivated the ground. When it was time for the harvest, Cain presented some of his crops as a gift to the LORD. Abel also brought a gift—the best portions of the firstborn lambs from his flock. The LORD accepted Abel and his gift, but he did not accept Cain and his gift. This made Cain very angry, and he looked dejected. “Why are you so angry?” the LORD asked Cain. “Why do you look so dejected? You will be accepted if you do what is right. But if you refuse to do what is right, then watch out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue it and be its master.” [Genesis 4.1-7]
The best explanation for the story of Cain and Abel here can be found in something Jesus said:
Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. [Matthew 6.33]
From the story of Cain and Abel, it becomes clear that it was indeed "a" priority for Cain to give back to God, but it was "the" priority for Abel to give back to God. The difference between Cain and Abel is spoken clearly by Jesus: Abel put God first and Cain only included God as a priority. For Abel, God was his priority. For Cain, his priorities were his god.
It is not ironic that Jesus included and live righteously in His famous Matthew 6.33 statement. What did God tell Cain? You will be accepted if you do what is right. Right - righteously... see the connection?
As the story of the Bible would unfold, God was crystal clear describing His stance regarding life and mankind:
I am the LORD your God, who rescued you from the land of Egypt, the place of your slavery. You must not have any other god but me. [Exodus 20.2-3]
Cain's offering to God was calculated: he gave some. God was indeed a priority, but Cain had other priorities as well.
Abel's offering to God was without calculation: he gave the best portions of the firstborn lambs. God was his only priority - period.
How this applies to us today is translatable (again) in Jesus' words:
Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. [Matthew 6.33]
For all the tendencies we have to calculate and reason with God, Jesus made it clear that God is to be Priority Only. The thing about God being "a priority" is that God simply allows no other priorities!
I am the LORD your God, who rescued you from the land of Egypt, the place of your slavery. You must not have any other god but me. [Exodus 20.2-3]
All the things we want to prioritize "under" God are all the things Jesus unapologetically said God will take care of: he will give you everything you need. Anything God said He would take care of is of no consequence or concern to us, ...unless, of course, we don't trust God. And this very doubt is precisely what our priorities declare regardless how religious it sounds for us to declare them.
Jesus was adamant on this topic:
If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it. [Matthew 10.39]
Where are our priorities in the verse above? And, where are our priorities in the following passage?
Then Jesus said to his disciples, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me. If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul? [Matthew 16.24-26]
What Jesus said above is confirmed in Mark 8.34-36 and Luke 9.23-25.
And furthermore, Jesus had this conversation with Peter:
Then Peter said to him, “We’ve given up everything to follow you. What will we get?” Jesus replied, “I assure you that when the world is made new and the Son of Man sits upon his glorious throne, you who have been my followers will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And everyone who has given up houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or property, for my sake, will receive a hundred times as much in return and will inherit eternal life. But many who are the greatest now will be least important then, and those who seem least important now will be the greatest then. [Matthew 19.27-30]
While it sounds like Jesus was saying we will receive a hundred times as much in return in this life, what difference does it make whether it is this life or eternity following if God is Priority ONLY?
The thing is, our religious calculation of "priorities" in our lives is more like Cain than Abel.
Is God our Priority? -OR- Are our priorities our god?
It would be a shortcoming here to overlook an important fact regarding Cain as his life of priorities continued after murdering Abel. Consider Cain's descendants:
Lamech married two women. The first was named Adah, and the second was Zillah. Adah gave birth to Jabal, who was the first of those who raise livestock and live in tents. His brother’s name was Jubal, the first of all who play the harp and flute. Lamech’s other wife, Zillah, gave birth to a son named Tubal-cain. He became an expert in forging tools of bronze and iron. Tubal-cain had a sister named Naamah. [Genesis 4.19-22]
In contrast, consider the descendants of Abel's subsequent brother Seth:
Adam had sexual relations with his wife again, and she gave birth to another son. She named him Seth, for she said, “God has granted me another son in place of Abel, whom Cain killed.” When Seth grew up, he had a son and named him Enosh. At that time people first began to worship the LORD by name. [Genesis 4.25-26]
Cain's descendants were known for raising food, entertainment, and industrialization - all noble priorities, right?
The descendants of Abel's "replacement" Seth were known for worshiping the LORD.
You tell me - which one could it be said is in greatest compliance with Jesus' demand in Matthew 6.33?
Oh, our religious defense mechanisms (i.e. doubt and unbelief) are in high gear now, aren't they? After all, everyone knows, "You gotta live, right?" One must have priorities, right? Tell that to Abel whose blood cries from the ground to God even to this day!
If we must categorize "our priorities" by the Bible's standard, we must classify them as idols. We have but one priority and He is God. He will tolerate no other priority in our lives (not my words, His).
I am the LORD your God, who rescued you from the land of Egypt, the place of your slavery. You must not have any other god but me. [Exodus 20.2-3]
And, just to be sure we get the message, God went on to clarify His intentions for us:
You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind or an image of anything in the heavens or on the earth or in the sea. You must not bow down to them or worship them, for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God who will not tolerate your affection for any other gods. I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected—even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me. But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love me and obey my commands. [Exodus 20.4-6]
Go ahead, offer explanations... But know this: the Bible supports only one priority in our lives, and He is God. More specifically, He is Jesus, God With Us, Who said:
If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me. [Matthew 16.24 (also, Mark 8.34 & Luke 9.23)]
Any way of our own - any other "priority" - is an idol. Really, God doesn't want to be Priority One, but instead, Priority Only.
Mmm.
Father, may we all have a serious "come to Jesus" concerning our "priorities." May we take Jesus' words in Matthew 6.33 seriously - giving You Priority Only status in our lives, allowing You to make good on Your promises without any help from us whatsoever. So be it.